SE vs. SXT. The rear seats and bench are comfortable for 5 people. The SXT is exactly the same, but leather is cooold in winter. Both have more room than other brands.
We have owned Plymouth, Dodge, and Chrysler vans and minivans. We have always needed to haul the family and fix-up supplies. They have been workhorses. The large step price increase does not justify reliability in Toyota and others.
SE vs. SXT. The SE 3.3 mpg is as good as other minivans and many cars, and better than the SXT 3.8 or 4.0. The 3.3 moves the fully loaded vehicle very easily.