If you can wait for the 2017 Pilot, it should be less glitchy. With recent Hondas and Acuras it's often best to wait for the second model year. What I do to control audio volume on recent Hondas is use the steering wheel control (which I rarely use in cars with knobs).
My issue with the Tahoe is that it's so much larger on the outside than on the inside, with a really tight third row.
You should also take a look at the Dodge Durango. While I'm wary of FCA reliability, the Durango has been good in our survey. Much better third row and better handling than the Tahoe.